No one in their
right mind plunks down a good fee for a psychic reading and then
deliberately sabotages their reading but a lot of people do it. They
do it because they do not understand how the psychic works and
unfortunately, a lot of psychics have never studied themselves enough
to understand the mechanisms.
I started out doing
readings and the professionally studied physiological monitoring
while becoming a biofeedback therapist. This gave me access to
medical monitoring equipment few psychics would ever see. It also
gave me quite an eye opening. I had never considered nor does anyone
else, that a psychic reading would take a physical toll on the
psychic.
You are in a relaxed
state, or you can't read. That is a fact. Intuition doesn't work in a
Beta brain wave state. You must be in relaxed Alpha or hypnogogic
Theta trance like state. Slip into Delta and you are asleep. So,
reading must be a relaxing, effortless thing. Imagine my shock when
my heart rate hit the 200 mark, my blood pressure shot up and with
that, my body temperature sky rocketed. The act of reaching for the
information causes this flight or fight response and then it settles
down to a nice relaxed baseline. BUT every time the psychic reaches
for a new piece of information up go the physiological markers. Any
doctor is going to tell you this is a bad thing and most likely why
so many psychics suffer from a myriad of health problems, high blood
pressure and diabetes being at the top of the list. I wish I had
known diabetes was going to be my fate but the American Medical
Association doesn't recognize stress and the fight or flight
response, even though the first step is the release of glucose into
the blood to power the muscles and do repairs, as a cause of Type 2
diabetes. I would have started out charging more and saving it for my
medical bills.
Let's return to the
reaching for information part. Why does the psychics' physiology
undergo such a radical change? I have a few theories, none of which
can actually be proven but they do explain the how of a reading. The
psychic is either obtaining information from a symbiotic being that
is part of them and whose “vibrational rate” for lack of another
word is different from that of the psychic. That causes the psychic
to have to synch their physiology to the higher rate of “vibration”
or it just may be entering into the spiritual realm which theoretical
physics implies operates had a higher and less dense rate than we do.
One theory is every few milliseconds we actually phase in and out of
another physical dimension. The psychic may have found a way to stay
a little longer in that place than you do and retrieve information
from it or communicate with beings that now live there. It takes a
physical toll.
Now to get a really
bad reading all you have to do is jar the psychic out of that state
constantly. Most psychics can move effortlessly (or so it appears)
into the state but if you keep pulling them into the Beta, the answer
questions and do math state, it becomes like starting and stopping a
car. You will most likely stall the engine and definitely wear the
brakes and transmission out.
Notice I said the do
math Beta state. The quickest way to jar yourself out of a nice day
dreamy Alpha state is to start counting or doing math. The only
reason counting sheep puts you to sleep is you get bored and lose
count. You no longer care. If you are counting your money, you aren't
going to sleep. So if you keep saying when or asking questions that
involve numbers, you will jar the psychic out of their “psychic
state”. This will make for a very disjointed reading.
One piece of
evidence in my world that the place I obtain information is
“vibrating” or moving at a faster rate than I normally do, is the
information arrives very fast. Consequently, interrupting the psychic
is going to derail that train and trust me when I say, you aren't
getting back on that track. I used to think the “spirits” were
just mean and had the attention span of a gnat on speed because it
was like listening to an auctioneer give a lecture and they would not
repeat themselves. Now I know that when someone wants a message to
get through, it takes a lot of energy to break through the dimensions
and like a radio, it has to be turned on to operate and uses energy.
They pretty much have one shot at getting it all out.
I don't know if the
information somehow bypasses the short term memory or short circuits
it, but the psychic most of the time cannot repeat what they just
said because they don't remember it. A couple of hours later, you may
remember it which means it has bypassed the short term memory and
gone into long term memory directly. That should not be possible, but
it happens. Thus interrupting with a barrage of questions is going to
accomplish nothing but derail your reading.
Psychics will
normally pause at a point and ask if you understand what they mean.
This only happens when I am reading the Tarot. If I am channeling or
working straight clairvoyance, you get one shot at the information
and I don't get a shot at it at all. It is gone. Thus, it really
helps if you pay attention and even take notes.
However, do not
bring the so-called psychic interpreters with you unless you want to
pay for a mess. I know they mean well, but all they do is cloud
things and the one time someone showed up with one, after two
sentences, the information stopped and the only message I got was to
get rid of her. She was messing up the reading. The point is, like
dreams, this is your world. Someone else can't really interpret it
for you. I often have no idea what I am saying means to you. This is
one reason why psychics are often general and vague to everyone but
the person they are reading.
I will give you an
example. The cards said a young girl who loves the customer very much
will spill the beans in a few weeks. He knew no such person and no
one else would know anything about the situation to give him the
truth, except he forgot his daughter regularly rats the mother out
and loves him very much. I actually had to make the connection for
him several times. This was one reading I earned my money just
repeating myself ad infinitum. Some times I need a tip to pay for the
aspirin.
Other times, you get
a customer who is totally in touch with their own life and picks up
and defines exactly who you are talking about instantly. They get
discounts on the their next readings in my world. However one thing
that drives the psychic and the entities involved batty are the
people who hear what they want to hear even if they have to make it
up. I have had a friend sit with the customer and tell her over and
over again, that I never said that. I am telling her I never said
that. She still insists I said that because she wants that to be
true. After a while it gets harder and harder to get an appointment
with the psychic or they start telling you what you want to hear.
People who do this become the con artists favorite customers because
they specialize in telling you what you want to hear. I have actually
had someone pay for multiple readings to try to get me to tell them
something that was not true.
You might think this
wouldn't happen with say an astrologer. However in one instant I had
run the charts for a man and his paramour who happened to be married
and not at all interested in him. She was actually married to her
soul mate. They were perfectly matched. This guy was no where in the
picture however, the other astrologer came up with two charts that
worked together. I started asking her how she derived these two
charts and she was somewhere in the 8th derivative of the
natal chart after several progressions of the progression. There was
no way these charts were in the vicinity or even the same city with
valid. But she was telling him what he wanted to hear and he was
paying hundreds of dollars a week to hear it.
Whenever I get a
reading that is actually what the person wants to hear, I double
check my cards and I more surprised than the person because life
happens. A psychic sees the most probable of futures. That doesn't
mean the improbable can't happen. It does every night on the LOTTO.
The odds of winning are astronomical but someone will eventually win.
There is another way
to sabotage your reading. You can change it. Many have argued that
the actual act of getting the reading changes your future or that the
actual act of considering your future all by yourself changes the
natural progression. I always say that if you don't like it, change
it. Unfortunately people change it for the worse. My best example is
a young lady who actually had three suitors ready to ask her out to
the prom. She rushed out and bought a dress, made a hair and nail
appointments and generally spent a ton of money all while telling all
her friends about it. All of this preparation convinced the three
suitors she already had a date and she sat home that night with a
dress she would eventually wear watching TV and crying. I don't know
how many women convince themselves their soul mate is around the
corner and send out a taken vibe that keeps everyone including the
possible soul mate away. You can do the same thing in business and
keep customers away by sending out the I'm too busy vibe thinking it
will attract customers. It attracts them to the guy who is sitting
there with the time for them, not you.
Always remember,
everyone doesn't click with everyone. You've gone to a doctor,
hairdresser or a lawyer and walked out and known it just wasn't going
to work. The person just wasn't getting you. The same applies to
psychic. Your best friend may get the best readings in the world and
you just don't click with the psychic. I bet you don't click with
their mate, either. So keep that in mind.
