Why Woman Fail

Why Women don't get promoted, elected or succeed?

It has taken me 48 years in the work force to figure this out. Apologies to my beleaguered husband but he is catalyst for my discovery.

After the grocery last night, he announced he had brought the groceries in and put the van back the way it was. This is probably how my cap fell off because for 49 years, this has caused a teeth grinding episode. I know he brought the groceries in because I put them away. If he didn't bring a bag in, I would be out there looking for it. And then I thought, I am grabbing this bull by the horns and flipping the thing. Why is he doing this? Why do men do this?

So I asked him very politely is he would have told me he brought the groceries in if I were another man and his answer was probably.

Then I realized this is a communications problem, big one. Men communicate differently from women about the same things.

As a kid, if I had announced I brought the groceries in, the reply would have been, “Do you want a medal or a Wilkie button?” Both items are useless in the real world. If I had been male, I would have been thanked but women are given jobs to do and taught to do them and shut up no one wants to know about it. The result is we do not talk about what we do. Men, on the other hand, are encouraged to tout not their successes, but anything they do.

So how does this affect women?

For one thing, we spend our lives feeling unappreciated because we never get any thanks for the things we do because no one knows we do them.

Take my professional life for instance. When asked about my week, by my boss, I would say X therapy was proving effective and perhaps add an anecdote about a patient. The male in the position would rattle off he did X hypnosis sessions, X hours of biofeedback, washed so many electrodes and saw X people. Even though I did more, he looks like he did more. So when give out the raises time occurs, the doctor knows what therapy I think is best and something about a few patients but the MAN has done all this work every week. Guess who gets the raise?

Women think is terms of finishing the global job and resting. Men break the job down into tiny work that they did. Women succeed and men do work. The problem is no one sees the success of cleaning the toilet, mopping the floor or spending a hour chopping veggies to make the dish. They just see the Chef prancing out with a huge bowl of veggies he boiled for 15 minutes and slapped some butter on. Guess who makes the most money?

It is the same thing in politics. Women focus of the goals and men focus on everything they did even if they only sat at the table at the meeting. If a woman doesn't directly participate she doesn't list things. For a man, he just has to be in the room, or walking through the room, to claim part of the credit.

What did you do all day? I took care of the kids, did the washing and fixed dinner.

Male version: I got each child out of bed, cooked 3 dishes for breakfast and then washed 3 dishes, put clothes on 2 kids, did three loads of laundry, one white, one cold water and one dark colors while placing detergent in the washer and drier sheets in each load I dried. One load took a full hour to dry. Then took out the pans, chopped the carrots and chopped the celery before putting them in the pot with peas I had defrosted..........getting the picture, yet?

Men are used to getting information this way. I took care of the kids doesn't process in their brain. It is too vague so it goes right out the other ear. You will hand the boss a report. The man will find the paper, write the report, print the report out, find a binder, put it in the binder and hand it to the boss, on time. Now who do you think will get credit for that report, you or him?

I wish I had understood this 50 years ago. I would gotten a lot further in business and life because the person most often handing out the money are male. Rather than having the job done by the end of day, I should have explained that gathering the information would take 3 hours, assembling it another 2 hours, typing it up an hour, printing it out.....and I might have it done by lunch tomorrow. I would be running the country right now.

And one last thing, fellows. We do not find your bowel movements fascinating. Please stop talking.

Mother of all Conspiracy Theories

The Mother of ALL Conspiracy Theories

I am not going to throw words like Deep State, New World Order, etc, around because I prefer John Lopez who lives at 6666 SW 6 Street in Hidden City, New Hole, United Psychopaths and can be reached at 666-666-6666. There is no amorphous organization meeting at midnight to sacrifice a baby before turning on their computers and contacting the Reptilian Overlords for instructions. There are very real, breathing people reading reports written by the best people money can buy making decisions designed to kill us all. The only questions are who and why and there is nothing woo-woo about it.

Fact: Humans occupy less of the world's habitable area than ants, cockroaches, mice, rats, etc. We occupy a tiny portion of the world smaller than the USA when you actually take all us and put us shoulder to shoulder.

Fact: We can feed every human on earth several times over.

Fact: We have enough resources to last ad infinium.

So why are we running in circles screaming the world is ending?

Because it is and the reason is, as Spock the Vulcan would say, fascinating.

We have all this land that no one lives on because we are social creatures that like to clump into groups but, psychologists and sociologists will tell you, not that close. Here is a fascinating fact and it involves no drugs. Our closest social model is a rat. Yes, they organize themselves into communities and families just like we do except they are actually successful at it. So what happens if you give a rat everything it desires which happens to be unlimited food and mates? You would have a happy rat. Now, what happens if you build the rat a city with everything it wants except more space? They go extinct. Now remember, they can't eat all the food, like the water, it is unlimited. Some poor lab tech cleans up after them every day. They get medical care and are healthy little suckers, so why go extinct? The answer was when the population reaches a certain density, the rats lose all interest in everything. They curl up in a ball and stop living. They stop eating and breeding. They actually become infertile for no apparent reason. They go extinct because they never recover from this.

Scientists have known this for at least a century.

So, we build cities, stack people on top of each other and make laws to prevent them from living in the countryside where they would have space and make sure the economy keeps crashing to increase the stress on city dwellers who have no way to actually take care of themselves. All anyone has to do is say, no, this is too dense a population, let's increase the living space. All ANYONE has to do is say no and NO ONE does.

Let's say you are a smart, hardworking businessman. You are making computers. They are a tad slow. Someone comes to your office and says, we can make them 5 milliseconds faster and the battery last fifteen minutes longer using the rare mineral that no one has ever heard of and increasing the price by several hundred dollars. How fast will you toss them out? First off, how did anyone even get a sample of this super rare mineral? It's so rare you don't even know the name or where it is found but it will involve invading several countries that might just fight back and all for what, a few milliseconds? You don't even know how fast a millisecond expires. Who does something that stupid? Well, that would be the current computer and telephone company heads. The men are a geniuses and they make that kind of a business decision?

The oil company executives were told over 60 years ago about global warming. The best minds in the world said there would only be one outcome if we continued to use fossil fuels: extinction. We can assume these captains of industry knew what the word extinction meant. Now, as a businessman with two brain cells functioning do you (a) start pumping as much oil as you can, pollute the environment as fast as you can and build even more inefficient vehicles to use the dwindling supply of fossil fuels OR (b) do you start looking for another industry to go into that does the same thing and doesn't use fossil fuels like, solar, wind and hydro power which is unlimited and FREE! Either the heads of the oil industry are incredibly stupid or brain damaged or there is something we don't know and it all leads to, just like the mega-cities, extinction.

Now how do we feed everyone? Simple, you stop wasting food and water feeding things to kill them to eat them. The only reason man eats meat is man is lazy. Go hunt, kill, eat but eventually you run out of things to hunt because they are all eaten, by you. That was when you started raising animals to eat but, the very people you made fun of, the vegetable growers, now have to grow vegetables to feed the animals you are growing to eat. Now, the fun fact here is that you can eat the vegetables with no problem and have plenty of water, land and food with no animals dying and no wasted resources. Unlike, say the cat, you can process vegetable protein. It actually keeps you alive longer than eating animal protein which is harder to digest and has more toxins in it. So you come up with 101 ways to cook chicken and disguise it as something new. Let's look at facts. You have chicken, beef and pork. That is three main meats and three tastes. You have potatoes, broccoli, tomatoes, beets, squash, lettuce, kale, cabbage, beans …..... shall I go on? The tastes available from plant matter is almost unlimited when you add in flowers and herbs and they cost less to produce, you can grow them in your kitchen and eat for free. So, if you want to feed the world many times over, just switch to vegetables instead of meat. Vegetables don't poop and pollute.

It is simple things, like cooking oil that really get you asking questions. Grape seed oil is a high temperature oil that can be used to cook everything. It can be produced by cold press which uses little energy except for a really heavy rock in primitive times AND here is the clincher, do you have any idea how many grape seeds are in the landfills? Let me explain, take a look at that bottle of wine. Wine is made from grapes and much to your shock, small grapes with BIG seeds. You have to crush the grapes and then filter the seeds out or the wine is awful. That produces pounds of seeds that could then be crushed and the oil extracted and used for cooking and frying and the hulls can probably be used for something but the question is why grapeseed oil is so expensive when it is made from garbage from the wine industry? It is healthy. It can be used at any temperature. It is cheap to produce. But we grow rape seed to make an unhealthy oil to market cheaper than grapeseed oil and we still have the hulls except this time they are toxic. So, all you smart business people out there, do you make a product you have to grow and process and then dispose of toxic waste or make a better product out of garbage and its by products are non-toxic. That is no growing, no harvesting and nothing to get rid of....which one? Why, the rape seed of course because we are stupid.

And the choices just keep multiplying over and over.

Let's keep people from going off the grid to live on their own land because after all it is more expensive and polluting to produce large amounts of power, purify water polluted by producing the power and then try to get rid of all the poop rather than each family passively producing their own power, filtering their own water and composting their poop for fertilizer to grow the veggies they are eating without a farmer spraying the crap out of a monocrop with poisons, harvesting it and trucking it to market all with lovely fossil fuels that are causing more pollution....wait a minute! Stop the insanity! Why are we doing everything the hard way? Are we suicidal?

Are we suicidal or is someone trying to kill us?

Sustainability is a dirty word. It means living a lifestyle that sustains us, society and the planet. It means if you produce it, you use a minimum of resources and you return to the planet an equal amount of equivalent resources. We have stopped doing that and gone to taking from the planet to produce a product at the highest cost and pollution with the end product being something that can't be used again and actually poisons us. Are you going to tell me all these captains of industry are so stupid they don't know that they are killing their own future generations? What kind of world are they leaving their children and grandchildren?

No one in their right minds would do this, except psychopaths who only care about what happens to them and no one else. Fortunately, psychopathy and intelligence go together. You seldom find a stupid psychopath but on the other hand, you don't always find rich psychopaths. I proved in another series of postings that none of the billionaires of today are actually “self-made men”. They ALL come from money, have excellent educations and were given every opportunity. You do not find a rags to riches story among them and every one of them is crazy. Most of them, without rich friends or family, would be serial killers roaming the back roads of the world looking for people to dismember alive.

Harsh? Oh let's look at the infamous twins. They completely dumped their entire family leaving them with little money to produce the most defective oil pipes in the world while abusing their wives and children. I mean, what do you call it when a man who is an expert skier takes his novice wife, the love of his life and mother of his children, on a skiing trip and puts her behind him on an expert slop from which there is no exit and where she can die in a horrible accident at any moment because of her novice status? Would that be a loving husband or a psychopathic potential killer? As the MEME's say, just saying. She thinks it is pushing her potential. So would pushing her off a cliff to teach her to flap her arms and fly. I say it is abuse on many levels. Would they be a billion dollars low producing a quality product that didn't consistently leak and pollute the earth and water? No, they wouldn't. So why does anyone buy their pipes? They are the sole producer of pipes in the world. They eliminated all competition in the field. There is no choice. Why didn't someone, some government stop them? They will stop you from installing your own water piper, for your own good, of course.

Here is what we know or I know. Everyone of these psychopaths got a hand up to become the billionaires they are. Someone whispered in their ear with a deal they couldn't pass up. The only people they care about is themselves. No one else really exists. They are geniuses but like practically all geniuses, they have a single focus and are unable to see either long range effects or the effects on other things from what they do. They all have excellent educations at the best universities where most of them dropped out and followed their “dream” in Daddy's ten car garage with a small, quarter of a mil loan or more, from a relative or friend of the family using their former school mates as slave labor with the promise they might be brought on board when they made it big. The school mates are probably flinging burgers because they are nowhere it be seen. Oddly, any one of the schoolmates would have made a better product and were better people..... I wonder if that is why they are flipping burgers with a Harvard degree. Once you step on that train, there is no exit and you are expendable. You will do what you are told or everything will be removed from you or you will suffer the Epstein fate.

So whose name am I looking for that isn't New World Order or Deep State? I am looking for the person who provided the money the investors gave them to start the companies. I want the name of the person who gave some dupe the rare minerals no one has ever seen in their lives to shave those milliseconds off your download. I want the person who provided the whiskey the afternoon those captains of industry decided to run the energy industry into the ground, start wars over oil and destroy the entire planet. I want to know who the head psychopath is and why they want to kill me. Yes, it is personal and you should want to know why they want to kill you. Why have they made sure we don't have the future we were promised? Why have they made sure we are disease ridden, stressed out, poisoned and overworked? Why have they caused us to waste our lives on a hamster wheel in a rat maze with no cheese at the end? And when we find them, instead of waiting for the answer, let's just throw them to sharks and let nature take its course. Sharks have to eat, after all. It is all every environmentally friendly.

I've done a bit of the legwork for you. So here are a few hints. It's not any head of banking, industry, country or royalty. These people are the expendable public faces of the monster. Remember one thing, the kings were originally chosen in this demented economic system to rule via divine right. Now, who determined what the divine right was? Now you have your starting point so delve into some genealogy and find out who and what the current families are. For all you know, they are living next door.

Pearls of War

Armed with nothing but a pearl necklace.............

I wonder when the reality of who the snowflakes or just plain flakes is going to set in with the screaming Cult of Hate. They have their leader, hiding in Walter Reed with his bone spurs (which curiously enough never go away without surgery and don't seem to appear on a single x-ray, ever), and their cry baby judge, afraid he won't get his bottle of beer, are all petrified of a woman armed only with a pearl necklace. Oh great white supremacist Vikings brought to their knees behind a bunch of old white chicken hawks scrambling for their lives when two women tell them to sit down and shut up armed once again, with that string of pearls.

Damn folks, perhaps we should forget restricting the purchase of AK-14's and take a good look at pearls. Those things are dangerous.

Or perhaps you might want to consider the GOP is nothing more than a bunch of cry babies who suddenly aren't able to bully or buy their way into power because someone finally said, “Enough”, and took away their safe place down at the local watering hole. Perhaps you might want to consider the hatred is fueled by equal amounts of alcohol and fear and like most rodents, will run as soon as the cat steps on stage. The cat wears pearls and they aren't fake.

Nope, unlike the Ho's in the front row of the hate fests, these pearls are the real deal, nicely understated and saying, “I have class, I have power and I have truth”. My pearls come from real wild oysters not subjugated, farmed slave oysters or the great Chinese glass pearl factory. Mine were formed in life's irritations of some poor oyster that just wanted to solve the problem of sand in its meal and now, I am going to solve the problem.

It would seem wrapping yourself in a giant flag made in China while waving a gold painted cross is about to go out of style, since someone just asked for the proof and those wooden swords don't cut well. The magic guy in the sky is nice, but steel always wins and those ladies have steel backbones.

Hold my Mead, things are getting real fast...

Hold my mead.........

One of the now most famous Evangelical “Ministers” is selling prophetic information to help you vanquish your enemies for what I am sure makes the price of a spell kit look weak and unworthy.

Okay, you guys have now publicly crossed the line. Hold my mead, the shit is going to get serious.

Let me explain this going back over 30 years.

Usually I get the call for help from bankruptcy court or the hospital, when the good Christian suddenly needs a “witch” because that “prayer circle” of “prayer warriors” didn't like them dating their daughter, the size of the commission they got or the color of their skin and now they will spend their last penny to stop the curse because now they know this is darkest magic and it is a curse being invoked by these “good Christians”. I have had good friends come within an inch of losing their life after losing everything they own and built. In that case, the why is they took one of them into their business when they got fired because they felt sorry for them. Next thing they saw was the inside of an ICU and after a month of coma. I have heard every excuse to doing this from “I should get a bigger commission than anyone else because I am a Christian” to “I had to get rid of the Catholics working there before my immortal soul was contaminated so I tried to kill the owner”.

No one believed me. Now it is out in the open. There is no vetting to see if this person is legitimately being targeted by someone. No checking to see if there really an enemy or just a rival. No checking to see if the person is insane but if you belong to that sect, the odds are pretty high you are. In short, it is for the right price handing a loaded gun to the bully in the school yard and permission to shoot anyone they think is doing them wrong.

So, let's start with some free information.

Has your child been harmed by the military or any police. Molock is the guy to go to. He rights those wrongs and helps ease the suffering of mothers.

Women, are you being harmed by ex's or others taking advantage of you and hurting your children. Pazuzu is your deity. He is invoked to protect households and children.

I know you have been told a lot of things about these deities but this is what they really do and they are very effective.

Moloch accepts offerings made of cedar. Cedar incense is burned on the altar. The offering can be burned or a cedar tree can be planted in his honor.

Pazuzu doesn't ask for offerings but things in bronze are favored by him. He is a storm god that brings dust storms so some sand is attractive to him on an altar. He will bankrupt the people who harm single mothers with children.

We Need a Specialist

It's time to go back to specialization.

In the olden days, if you needed rain, you went to the rain god's temple with an offering and discussed it with him/her. Thunder and lightning might have required another deity and a larger offering. The fertile crop deities were always popular for a party and wine deities even had their own and frequent holidays.

Then along came this one god I can do everything guy and things have been going down hill. When is the last time he granted anything? I mean it is possible he is overworked but he was supposed to do everything and now we have droughts, famine, Global warming, massive crop failures, unhappy people all over the place (I think the wine deities would have fixed that one), hatred, fear and it just goes on and on.

Multiple Deities made us happy. If they didn't work out, we just borrowed the village next door's deity. I think that is why we have so many wine and fertility deities. Villages started collecting them. They are fun.

I bet all Noah's wife wanted was her garden rained on every Monday and Thursday. Somewhere around week 5, she is asking Noah where the rain is. Noah is, as usual trying to shut her up as he is building a big boat dreaming of all the riches this new one god is going to drop on him. We all know how that turned out, a huge flood and a boat load of whining animals.

We need to go back to the specialist deities. They knew how to get things done.

It's not just a phase

Phases of Life

Oh it's just a phase they are going through!

It's dismissive. It makes you feel like a two year old. It says you'll get back to “normal” shortly.

It's none of those things, not even if you are a two year old and the worst thing anyone can do is just ignore it.

Young children cannot learn by being told. Imagine explaining to a child how to walk while keeping their legs tied together. What do you think the chances are that child is going to learn to walk? The answer is nil, zero, none. That is because the child must experience balance and movement to walk.

However, as the child grows older the parents expect them to learn by being told not to do something. The stove is hot.

Oh admit it, every one of you touched the stove and got burned.

And so it just goes on and on. Not even those brilliant teenagers are that good at learning something by reading about it. Tell me, do you think you can gain confidence by reading about someone who is confident? Am I crazy? No, that is exactly what you think because you just said it was a phase they are going through.

Those phases allow a person to try on and practice a new form of life expression be it being a spy or an assertive person. Women are more likely to be going through phases than men because men are allowed to express themselves and women are locked into the “lady mold”.

Phases do more than that. By experiencing a new life perspective, a person develops empathy with others in different situations. It allows a person to incorporate new expressions of themselves into their overall personality. It is a simple of way of uncovering talents and learning what you really don't want to do.

It is not just a phase. It is how you successfully learn to be human. It is how you learn what works and what is going to get you isolated. It is how you learn what you love. It is how you grow.

Encourage the phases. They will do more to produce a well rounded happy individual than all the money in the world.

The Last Tarot Reading

At the beginning of this administration, I used to do a daily Tarot reading. I really loved doing them and had done them throughout other administrations.

This one was different. Every day the readings were worse until finally, one day when I finished and published, I did a three month reading. The results were worse. Okay, I tried three more months and got a worse reading. I jumped to six months and it was worse. The thing is, even after the 2020 elections, the readings didn't get better. I asked why and the answer was that things would never be undone. I didn't understand. I do now. I stopped doing the readings that day.

Those children in camps will never be reunited with their real parents.

The public lands sold off for strip mining and fraking will never be returned to we the people.

The face of our legal system will be forever one of injustice as these for-life judge appointments continue to play out.

We will never be able to clean up the land and water from four years of heavy pollution. Poison just doesn't go away and the results of this, the malformed children, the sick adults, the brain damaged and the dead elders can't be reversed.

We cannot just turn the clock back because the departments have not just been gutted, they have been destroyed. The very programs that the system ran on, and I mean computer, have been erased and would have to be rewritten from memory.

Our entire government has been destroyed.

But far more, our trust in anything and anyone, including those near and dear to us, has been destroyed.

We would like to lay the blame at the feet of tRump and Moscow Mitch, but they were just the instruments. The people holding the strings to these puppets are FOX News and the Rightwing Shock Jocks. Without their drug induced daily insane rants and conspiracy fantasies, because they didn't qualify as theories....theories require a few facts, these two men wouldn't have managed to consolidate the amount of power they did. The Orange Turnip would never have won without FOX laying the groundwork and lying to gullible people who thought what they saw on TV was truth. Mitch the Moscow Bitch would never have been able to pass a rule he had to approve anything before it could be voted on in the Senate. Old Boner resigned because he had to have been approached to do this and the old drunk actually had enough ethics to refuse but not to hand the position over to someone who would. So, yes, this falls in his lap and he doesn't get to play Kissinger and tell us where we went wrong. He went wrong.

We don't need a State Run Network. We need to prevent foreign interests from ever again buying into American networks. We need to ban foreign interests from having any part in American news organizations. If Reagan hadn't fast-tracked Murdoch's citizenship application, he could never have created FOX. So, yes, let's blame the real culprit in this saga, St. Ronnie because the framework for everything that has happened, economically, socially and religiously starts in his administration with a group of 5 economists and one sleaze who managed to get Nixon elected by costing the lives of thousands of young men in a jungle in SE Asia. If Nixon hadn't been caught, this would have happened then.

So no, there is no happy ending. You can't fix the trauma of the Trumpcamp children. You can't bring back the dead from canceled insurance. You can't fix the Veterans returning to a thank you and a homeless camp. You can't make up for 4 years of a gutted educational system. You can't bring the veterans back you deported. You can't bring the Kurdish women and children back to life that we abandoned. You can't fix this. But you can make sure the people who aided and betted this in their little red hats never get to forget what they did because we will NEVER FORGET.